2009年1月8日 星期四

Your Friends Need Money. Do They Have References?

My reaction:

According to the“ Your Friends Need Money. Do They Have References? ” , the financial planner advised the people thought twice when they wanted to lend money to someone even their friends or relatives because it would cause the inevitable effect that never we thought. Besides, this news mentioned that the true stories which occurred at the United State and told the people--- money is the root of the evil.

In the practical world, money is an issue of sensitive which is bring along some troubles for the people, even damage the relationship between the creditor and debtor. This reminds me that this kind of matter had occurred on me when I was high school. When I lend money for my friend, I was an angel. However, when I asked her to repay me, she reneged on repayment, I got a bad feeling. The truth is that our relationship got worse and worse. When I recalling this matter, I think the distance in the issues of money among the friends is a suitable way that keep the good relationship.

However, it not means that we can not extend the hand, but we want to assure their ethic and the situation. For example, the financial problem of our family, we must settle it with careful. If anything goes awry, family bonds will be frayed. Besides, someone is embarrassing to reject the requesting of borrow money, they unwittingly step into the trap that is made the shameless people.

Standing at the position of greedy, borrowing, a term which is full of the overwhelming temptation because you never pay sweats on the brow but you can get it. However, for me, I think the borrowing likes a path which is full of the thistles and thorns and we don’t know when we can repay it. Despite we can repay it, how about the debts of the gratitude? We will be winced by the feeling of uncomfortable and the unexpected barriers are still there!